Have you checked our sponsor, Grille-Tech.com? They sell black and silver. Their special buy ends in two days. Getting yours painted... YES!! Just find someone to do it.
I spent HOURS looking for another grille at a better price, never found one. Grille-Tech.com has a hell of a reputation... check 'em out. Everything else I've found is $120 - $400 for grilles that are as nice. I looked for Dakota/Durango too... no luck with anything as cheap. The ones that I didn't like better then what Grille Tech offered were like $300+ everytime.
After much consideration, I'm buying one for my truck.
~Amanda